Watch What You Say!
While it's always important to choose your words carefully when talking about students and their behavior, it's even more important when you are talking with parents about their child who is perfect in every way in their eyes. The following positive expressions were taken from "Conference Time," produced by the National Education Association.
Positive Expression |
Negative Expression |
Should |
Must |
Can do more when s/he tries |
Lazy |
Disturbs the class |
Trouble maker |
Depends on others to do his work |
Cheats |
Working at his own level |
Below average |
Insists on having his own way |
Stubborn |
Not challenged |
Disinterested |
Could make better use of his/her time |
Wastes time |
Difficulty in getting along with others |
Bullies |
Uses unbecoming language |
Swears |
Tries to get attention |
Shows off |
Inconsiderate of others |
Rude |
Has a chance of passing, if |
Will fail |
Outspoken |
Insolent |
Achieving below his ability level |
Poor grade of work |
Can do better work with help |
Stupid |
Poor habits |
Unclean |
Cooperation |
Help |
Usually |
Time and again |
Failed to meet requirements |
Failure |
Updated: February 18, 2009 8:37 PM
